6. Not everybody is going to like you.

 And that is completely okay. 

I admit I have this thing that I highly enjoy when everybody likes me. And I don’t mean it in a way that I like to be popular and the centre of everyone’s attention. Not at all. I am not fond of this even though my horoscope says otherwise since I’m a Leo. What I really mean is that I don’t feel comfortable when I am around this one person and he or she has a problem with me. It annoys me, and I dare to say I am not the only one. People like to be liked.

Therefore, it is crucial to realise this fact. Not everybody is going to be a fan of you because if you think about it it’s ridiculous to think that every living human being would like you. Try to look at it from the other side. Do you like everyone you meet? Absolutely not, that would be just a plain insanity.

It is normal. Even psychology states you can’t get along with everyone so why should they? It is important to know that you have someone who does like you for who you are.

You must face it. Someone will love you. Someone will fancy you. Some other person might think you are quite alright. And someone will not be able to be in the same room with you for a longer period of time. It is normal. It is human and coping with it is must do. If you try to change yourself for everybody to like you, you’ll never find happiness. You won’t be happy with yourself.

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